Mamma Mia

Entertainment

I took our eldest to see Mamma Mia at the cinema this afternoon. Loaded down with drinks, popcorn and chocolate, we got great seats and enjoyed every minute of it. I’m not ashamed to say I had tears running down my cheeks more than once. I looked across at my young charge’s face from time to time - greeted with a little girl jigging to the music, feeding her face with a never ending stream of popcorn, and laughing like a drain at the antics of Meryl Streep, Julie Walters and Co.

The only downer on the entire afternoon was a moral dilemma. I’ll need to explain.

Shortly after taking our seats in the cinema - which after buying tickets, popcorn and drinks cost us something in the region of £20 ($40), a group of mentally handicapped people came in also, and sat just down the row from us with their carers. Throughout most of the movie they talked, shouted, screamed, cried, and generally disrupted the rest of the audience. Nobody said or did anything.

Here’s the question - should somebody have said or done something? Although their actions were of course no fault of their own, should the carers have tried at least to do something?

Had the movie contained any meaningful dialogue it would have rendered it unwatchable. If anybody had complained, they would almost certainly have been labelled a monster by everybody present, considered prejudiced, and be seen as promoting the idea that handicapped people have no place in society.

Tolerance is a difficult idea to embrace sometimes.

p.s. Piers Brosnan is almost as bad at singing as everybody said, and yes, I did spot Benny playing the piano in the scene where the girls run down to the harbour.

4 Comments

  1. urban cowgirl  •  Sep 8, 2008 @12:36 am

    Hm. This is a very difficult one. At our local cinema in London there is a ‘mothers and babies’ screening once a week, during the day, for exactly the reason of trying to be inclusive without ruining things for other cinema-goers. I think the only thing you could do (to avoid looking unsympathetic) would be to explain to the cinema staff afterwards that while it didn’t affect your enjoyment this time, perhaps it would be a good idea to start a cinema screening advertised as a screening where it’s OK to have a serious amount of disruption and nobody has to feel bad. I wouldn’t characterise it as ‘mothers and babies’ (quite apart of reasons relating to the sexist implications), but just a screening for those who have difficulty sitting still and quiet for two hours at a time.

    Honestly, I don’t know why more cinemas don’t do this. One or two screenings per week would not kill them, and it might bring more people through the doors who do feel bad because of the potential for disruption.

    It always seems to be the independent cinemas rather than the big multi-screen conglomerates who think of these things.

  2. Chris  •  Sep 8, 2008 @9:06 am

    At my workplace we’ve recently had professionally led disability access training. Two topics covered were: when writing or speaking about people with disabilities it’s important to put the person first; and also use currently accepted terms for disabilities. So “mentally handicapped people” may be more appropriately referred to as “people with a learning disability”.

    I also totally understand where you’re coming from.

  3. blogapotamus  •  Sep 8, 2008 @2:44 pm

    I’ve been in both cinemas and theatres when this has happened. I know how important it for those that are mentally handicapped to feel as though they are valued and accepted by the community, but I have to wonder if it’s totally fair on everyone else who’s paid out a good deal of money on a performance only to have it disrupted by moaning, wailing, etc. If my child created a disturbance during a performance and I didn’t take her out, members of the audience would stare daggers at me.

    My mother spent 30 years as a public school teacher in which she was often (being the most experienced teacher) asked to take in “mainstreamed” children (kids with severe learning or mental difficulties) who, unfortunately, took a huge amount of time away from the other children in the class. Sadly, it didn’t serve the mainstreamed kids at all- they needed one on one tutoring to reach their full potential, which is something my mom just couldn’t give them with 30 other kids in her charge. It occurs to me that that’s kind of relevant to the post, but I’m not entirely sure how…

  4. dancin29g  •  Sep 9, 2008 @4:09 am

    Loved the movie. I even love the sing a long version more. It’s camp and fun! I would see it again and recommend it for a light and fun experience.

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